Aligned Hot Marriage

Do you tell yourself:

“We need more time together for our relationship to thrive.”
“Hopefully when the kids are older we’ll be happy as a couple again.”
“If I just had a communication script to follow…”
“If only my spouse were a better lover.”
“What’s wrong with me and why is this so hard?”
“If I can just find a way to put up with xyz (insert partner’s annoying way of communicating, touching you, not paying attention to you, or other problematic behavior), then things will be fine.”

You’ve been taught a falsehood.

The only reason you are telling yourself those things is because you’ve been taught that the way to have a great marriage is to be good at compromise.

It’s not.

Compromise is a one-way ticket to unhappiness, dissatisfaction, disconnection, and infrequent and/or unsatisfying sex.

Despite being the most commonly-given relationship advice, it doesn’t work. When you compromise on honoring your needs and desires, speaking your truth, and downplaying yourself for the sake of the relationship, it actually erodes the connection between you.

Consider this...

When you compromise, you both end up feeling unseen, taken for granted, disrespected, and not fully present in your relationship.

You are more likely to be on your phone, spend money, work out, complain to friends, feel burnt out and unappreciated while attending to daily tasks and responsibilities.

You yearn to feel more alive and find yourself dehydrated and sexually frustrated instead.

Compromising for the sake of your relationship is the very behavior that breeds resentment, numbness, disconnection, random outbursts when you need to let off steam, and a sense of futility that’s hard to pinpoint.

On the outside everything looks great but inside, it’s lonely and complicated.

It doesn’t need to be that way

You’re smart, educated, and motivated to do well in your life. You know how to succeed in professional contexts so it’s really frustrating that it’s not happening in your marriage too.

Of course you want a fun, easy, affectionate relationship with emotional nourishment along with sensual connection and erotic gratification.

You don’t have to be stuck walking on eggshells or tolerating random communication landmines.
You don’t have to hold back your authentic desires fearing they may be perceived as “too much.”
You don’t have to keep wondering whether you can have the relationship you really want.
There’s no reason to continue feeling rejected, resentful, or unable to connect because you don’t know how to do it differently.

It’s time to stop compromising and develop the skillset that allows you to be fully self-expressed while also connecting deeply, with nuance and power. I call this Uncompromising Intimacy.

provides a proven roadmap to create:

– lasting emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy

– a relationship that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside

– trust you can say whatever you need to and it will go well

– confidence you can weather any storm and quickly reconnect

– fun and ease with excellent communication and sexual chemistry

The concept is simple, so why is this rare?

Because the books, podcasts, therapists, counselors, and coaches, tend to operate from the wrong paradigm. They can be very useful for individual growth but not so helpful in growing the connection between two people.

Plus the key is not to focus on communication scripts, new sexual positions, or any other behavioral strategy–the key is to develop a felt sense of connection both within yourself and with your partner.

Typical problem-solving skills don’t work here–but you already know that.

This is not something you can figure out on your own, because by definition you can’t see your own blind spots.

Why Uncompromising Intimacy Works:

Instead of needing to change who you are, or act in a particular way, with Uncompromising Intimacy you will become more of who you already are.

You will learn to use your intelligence and professional savvy to be more gratified and show up in your marriage more effectively.

Clear, sequential steps show you how to speak from the heart, etc

Experience the power of vulnerability and enjoy that doing so stokes the fire between you, creating more passion than ever before

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is THE place to learn my cutting edge methodology of Uncompromising Intimacy.

What took me decades to develop is available to you in 8 simple modules.

You’ll get results as soon as you being!

Many graduates refer to the Aligned & Hot Marriage program as the marriage manual they are glad to finally have.

you will learn to:

Tap into playfulness with your partner, and lighten up the heaviness, so your relationship feels fun and easy again
Notice where you withhold and compromise and learn to be fully expressed instead– even on the topics you tend to dial down the truth of who you are
Move towards one another and expand your connection, even when you disagree
Speak so your partner listens, and you feel understood, without the heartache of feeling taken for granted
Distinguish between brutal honesty and vulnerable honesty, in order to feel closeness without unnecessarily hurting one another
Overcome frustrating patterns so you enjoy being together without feeling alone
Enjoy the personal power that arises with a win-win approach, shedding any tendency towards domination or hierarchy
Build a lasting foundation that allows you to feel confident you’ll navigate whatever life brings–together–without unwelcome disconnection and shutting down
Make transitions smoothly so you limit the time you’re out of sync, without the need for lots of processing
Uplevel the culture of your marriage and fall in love all over again, without the risk of losing the spark

Any of these sound familiar?

You and your partner want to learn how to have a fantastic relationship.
Your communication is good and you want it to be better.
Your marriage is good and solid and you want to reignite the spark.
You’ve never consciously focused on your marriage and are excited to do so.
You’ve done lots of therapy and you yearn for proactive guidance and clear progress.

You and your partner have been married for a few decades and want to deepen your connection.
You and your partner are engaged or newly married and committed to setting yourselves up to win.
You and your partner have been stretched thin by kids/career/other commitments and want to find your way back to one another.
You’re both committed to your own personal growth as well as the growth of your marriage

This program isn't right for you if:

You believe the most effective way to improve your relationship is for your partner to change.
Your relationship is toxic and volatile.
You are on the verge of divorce and this is your last ditch effort.

"The Aligned & Hot Marriage program doesn’t focus on having sex… but it focused on the things that made me crave more closeness with my husband. In the last six months since completing the program we have probably “connected” intimately more than we did in the entire six years after becoming parents.

For ages, our single friends have held us up as “couples goals” and I felt like such a fraud because I knew we didn’t have much romantic intimacy…but now that title feels pretty damn spot on!

We really do feel more cohesive, and on the same team, than we ever have before!"

Purchase today and receive immediate
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Intimacy

Without even realizing it you have adopted false ideas and common misconceptions about intimacy and how to cultivate it. Through this eye-opening course you’ll identify the well-meaning, dysfunctional behaviors you’ve adopted, that create barriers to intimacy–every single day. Reinvent intimacy from the inside out through nurturing emotional intimacy, sensual intimacy, and erotic intimacy, in order to access the passion you yearn for.

Using Attachment Styles to Create More Connection in your Relationship

Most attachment style teaching provides understanding without offering solutions for everyday interactions and increasing passion in the bedroom. In this much-loved webinar, Alexandra details the different attachment styles and how to navigate them to make your relationship better. She provides real-time solutions depending on your attachment style and the challenges it creates, as well as ways of being successful based on your partner’s attachment style and the challenges it creates.

“The Aligned & Hot Marriage program helped Greg and me to focus on our relationship in a productive way. For much of our relationship, we have simply lived our lives together, without putting much thought into why we react the way we do when things are annoying to one of us, or when they are really good.

The modules in the program guided us to become more intentional and aspirational in our partnership. Instead of blindly continuing as we had been, we learned how to improve communication so it’s easier and more satisfying for both of us. We also learned how to deepen the quality of our intimacy, and how to talk about it more effectively. Simply put, the program is an invaluable tool for connection.”

Kari Lynn Morgan,
Relationship Coach

Our schedules are super busy, what’s the time commitment?

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is designed for couples like you, with busy, full lives, and many personal and professional responsibilities. As you go through the program, you can pace yourself according to your availability.

However, if you want to deepen your connection and reignite the spark in your marriage, it takes time, attention, and a willingness to prioritize your relationship in order to get the results you want. Couples usually find it takes about 30-45 minutes per week to watch the videos and do the activities in each module. Some couples get into student mode and schedule regular times to learn. Other couples make the Aligned & Hot Marriage program an at-home date night activity. Most importantly, by virtue of it being an independent study program, you can set it up however it works best for you.

How long will we have access to the curriculum?

Once you enroll, you’ll have lifetime access.

We were looking for private sessions. Is an independent study program going to work for us?

Absolutely! The Aligned & Hot Marriage program provides the structure and guidance you’re looking for to increase the intimacy in your relationship. It’s a fun, easy-to-follow curriculum that will facilitate profound transformations for anyone who implements the lessons.

Many couples have had this question before enrolling, and have been very pleasantly surprised with the enhanced intimacy and connection that naturally happens as a result of participating in the program.

My spouse isn’t into personal growth. Do both of us need to participate?

As you implement what you learn in the program, your relationship will evolve in wonderful ways. This means, while it’s most beneficial to work through each module together, you will still get a great deal of benefit doing the program on your own.

Also, there are a lot of options in this situation. Some people watch the videos on their own, and their partners just join in for the activities. Others engage with the material and seamlessly integrate the lessons into their relationship, without ever telling their partner about the program. The point is, you can make lasting improvements whether your partner joins you or not.

I need to learn how to be a better husband. Will this program teach me how?

Yes, definitely. This program provides step-by-step, sequential instruction on how to positively contribute to your marriage–while getting your own needs met. It takes what seems mysterious and makes it actionable.Without ambiguity or inference, you’ll learn how to be present with your wife in ways that gratify you both–intellectually, emotionally, and physically. It really isn’t as complicated as you’ve been led to believe.

I want more sex. My wife doesn’t. Will this help us to connect more?

It certainly will, but not how you think. Your sex life will flourish when you put your attention on deepening your emotional connection with your wife. The Aligned & Hot Marriage program will show you how to do so and, for most couples, that is all it takes for sensual intimacy to flourish.

Many sources emphasize the importance of masculine/feminine roles and/or specific communication scripts. As a woman, I don’t want to give up my power to become soft and seemingly surrendered. Does your program require that?

I am not formulaic in my approach so the short answer is no, those philosophies are not part of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

Uncompromising Intimacy is all about becoming more of who you are, not someone you aren’t. So if your personality is to be soft and surrendered but you’ve learned to be tough and do everything on your own, then becoming more aligned and authentic will involve some softening. But if you are a kickass, powerful woman, then that’s who your husband fell in love with and that’s the woman who gets to show up more (not less).

“The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is opening doors for us as a couple, and showing my husband that working on our marriage is valuable. We previously had some bad experience with counseling and this program is SO MUCH better!

The curriculum is easy to follow and enjoyable for both of us. It’s exactly what I was looking for but never knew existed!”

Maria Gonzalez

Having a
relationship is a
learnable skill

You can change this today.

565 couples already enrolled
Will you and your spouse be next?

Do you tell yourself:

Consider this...

It doesn’t need to be that way

provides a proven roadmap to create:

The concept is simple, so why is this rare?

Why Uncompromising Intimacy Works:

you will learn to:

Any of these sound familiar?

This program isn't right for you if:

This is an independent study program you can work through at your own pace. You will have lifetime access to the curriculum.

Investment:

$599

$319

Once you enroll, your partner will be invited to enroll without an additional charge.

Purchase today and receive immediate
access to game-changing BONUSES

Intimacy

Using Attachment Styles to Create More Connection in your Relationship

The Modules

How It Begins

Keeping It Fresh

Opening Your Hearts, Safely

How You Say It Matters

Happiness Is Yours

Responsibility Is Sexy

Ignite Passion

Ongoing Expansion

FAQs

Having a relationship is alearnable skill

You can change this today.

565 couples already enrolled Will you and your spouse be next?

Do you tell yourself:

Consider this...

It doesn’t need to be that way

provides a proven roadmap to create:

The concept is simple, so why is this rare?

Why Uncompromising Intimacy Works:

you will learn to:

Any of these sound familiar?

This program isn't right for you if:

This is an independent study program you can work through at your own pace. You will have lifetime access to the curriculum.

Investment:

$599

$319

Once you enroll, your partner will be invited to enroll without an additional charge.

Purchase today and receive immediate access to game-changing BONUSES

Intimacy

Using Attachment Styles to Create More Connection in your Relationship

The Modules

How It Begins

Keeping It Fresh

Opening Your Hearts, Safely

How You Say It Matters

Happiness Is Yours

Responsibility Is Sexy

Ignite Passion

Ongoing Expansion

FAQs

Having a
relationship is a
learnable skill

565 couples already enrolled
Will you and your spouse be next?

Purchase today and receive immediate
access to game-changing BONUSES